拜见岳父大人

以前小的时候总在家属大院里的电影院看电影，所以这是我小学第一次和爸爸在带空调的电影院看的电影，影片大部分内容已经记不清了，不过岳父的爱猫情结却影响我至深，猫是这个世界上最难屈服的宠物，比起顺服甚至愚忠的狗，猫更显灵性。

所以我现在只养猫了。

说起养猫，据说养狗的都是缺爱，养猫的都是爱过甚无处发泄，所以养猫的，赶紧找个伴吧。

直到看这部片子前，还从来没想到过女婿在入赘前拜见岳父会遇到这么多可怕的事情。

我们或许可以叫gred是世界上最倒霉的新郎了（当然也拜他父母给他起的那个倒霉名字所赐，gay& “fucker”。。。

真会想）在那个周末发生的一切巧合的如同《死神来了》上那些死神匪夷所思的安排一样，看着倒霉的冒泡的gred真的可以让人笑到岔气。

当然最后的结果是gred被逼到夺门而出，但是岳父大人在机场的那番变向的“求婚”确实全片最最温馨的时刻，做父亲的在将百般疼爱的女儿的手置于另一个将与她共度余生的另一个男人的手中时，那种感情可谓五味杂陈，幸福，欢喜，酸涩，当然还有一些吝惜。

所以，岳父大人所作的这一切也就不难理解了。

他用不太恰当的方式，想狠狠确定的就是是否能够信任的将女儿的幸福，自己精心保存了20多年的宝贝托付给别人。

最后gred和他的岳父终于可以和平的对坐斟饮，女儿的婚期也近了。

让我想到一句话：一切都没有意外，只是多了一些曲折而已，我们需要做的就是耐心的等待。

哥哥的婚期也近了，大龄男青年的婚姻问题终于没有成为社会负担。

祝他们幸福。

没想到这种扯淡是真的这要搁我身上 我早吓跑了谁让丫本`太背了呢总体说来 剧情挺好 一环一环的``不对 我怎么评价这个了呢```怪了```其实我是CIA

The comic movie “Meet the Parents” is also a thought-provoking one. Instead of just keeping laughing and laughing, I think more about the main characters (Greg and Jack), prejudice, bias, the relations between children and parents, etc. Without a doubt, the comedy tries to tell us something serious in an easy way. 1. About PlotThis movie tells us a dramatic story of a couple of lovers and a visiting to the woman’s parents’ house in a humorous tone. The man whose name is Gaylord Greg Focker fell in love with the woman Pam Byrnes and he made up his mind to marry her. By listening to Pam and her sister’s phone call unintentionally, Greg realized that he should ask for her parents’ (especially her father’s) permission if he wants to marry her. So he prepared a lot for the visiting to her parents’ house. However, Rome was not built in one day. Greg lost his parking which contained the rings for the propose to Pam during the flight to Pam’s parents’ home which led to the following series of bad consequences. It was clear that Pam’s father Jack didn’t like Greg at all. Greg’s profession is nurse, which lead to Jack’s prejudice; Greg did not like cats, which make Jack unhappy because he was fond of them; Jack even suspected that Greg took drugs just because he said something like ‘puff the magic dragon’ carelessly.Fortunately, to meet viewers’ expectation, the film has a happy ending. At the end of the film, when Greg finally gave up and decided to leave, Pam’s father Jack was convinced and changed his attitude towards the lover of his daughter. Greg came to the family again and make the offer of marriage to Pam successfully. 2. About Gaylord Greg FockerI share the same opinion with most of audiences that I like Greg very much. Although he seems to be a little bit stupid and slow in response, he is a truly reliable young guy as a husband as well as a son-in-law. This conclusion can be drawn from the scene in the movie that when Pam’s father made him promise to obey the rules so that he could be maintained in the trust circle, he just kept it in mind and followed it carefully. What is the most important thing is that he loves Pam deeply, for he sacrificed a lot to try to gain appreciation from his future father-in-law. For instance, he got along as well as possible with the cat which he used to hate and received Jack’s polygraph test tamely (although it is unreasonable and impolite). Jack was very rude to Greg which we can observe from Jack’s behavior, like, he even did not allow Jack to use the toilet bowl. But Jack didn’t complain a word about these things because of his true love to Pam. What a frank and lovely man he is!3. About Jack ByrnesBesides Greg, I also have affection on the other main character Jack, the father of Pam. It is true that he is very rigid when judging his daughter’s boyfriend. However, I can tell that these were all resulted from his endless love towards his daughter. He fully prepared for a surprise for another daughter Deborah Byrnes’s wedding ceremony and cared a lot for Pam’s future life. He is like a mirror which reflects the depth of fathers’ love in the whole world. Jack also makes me think of my own father Simon who loves me very much. I am sure when I bring my boyfriend home one day in the future, he must be very picky too. Thinking about my father, I consider Jack a good father. I even feel pity for Jack for he would have to let his sweet daughter live with others in the future.4. About Prejudice and BiasIn the movie, I am deeply impressed by the prejudice and bias in U.S. The social classes are divided clearly in U.S., which are the upper classes, the middle classes and the lower classes. The higher-class people have a prejudice against the lower-class people, which can be seen in many American films, novels and news reports. The only thing I dislike in the comedy is the obvious prejudice Jack showed to Greg. He thought that Greg was not a successful and industrious man because he was only a nurse; he invited Pam’s ex Kevin Rawley to home deliberately to make Jack embarrassed; he even investigated Jack’s background through CIA. I feel very sorry for this kind of bias which commonly exists all over the world, not only in China. I just wonder that why a person who earn money to make a living is prejudiced against just because his/her occupation is not ‘good’ enough ?5. About Children and ParentsWhen talking about my opinion about the relationship between parents and their children, I’d like to talk about more my own experience and ideas. When I was living together with my parents, I always complain that they nearly controlled every aspect of my life and their rules almost extended to every corner of my own personal affairs. I was impatient about their suggestions or comments on my behaviors. However, as time goes by, as I grew up and apart my parents to attend the university, I miss them so much, even their strong controlling and rules. It is sort of weird, isn’t it? I finally know that it was a kind of true happiness when you have someone be around with you and care about you. So it is the love that combines our parents and us together firmly. Whatever they do and say is aimed to make us happy. Keep this in mind and cherish the time you are spending with your parents instead of regretting after losing them.

《拜见岳父大人I》典型的美式喜剧。

《博物馆惊魂夜》中的可怜小保安原来之前在DE NIRO家有过如此的遭遇。

（我爆笑）职业是男护士，名字是FOCKER（|||_|||）浪漫的求婚被小朋友和突如其来的电话搅乱；飞机场装着钻戒的行李意外丢失；最倒霉的是——他遇上了一个似乎处处与他为敌的“岳父大人”……呵呵，GREG真是世界上最倒霉的人。

后面的情节我就不透露了。

但不得不提DE NIRO那只可爱的JINXY猫～～真想玩玩那个可爱的小家伙。

说点美语及其文化上的“发现”吧！

1.第一次知道 PUFF THE MAGIC DRAGON是嗑药的意思，以前还曾经受这首歌启发写过一篇随笔@.@2.不得不纠正一下对美国人的认识，美国传统的清教家庭对婚前性行为还是很不能接受的，所以JACK才会要求GREG：KEEP YOUR SNAKE IN THE CAGE.3.注意到美国人最看中的品质是什么了不？

OF COURSE--HONEST!克林顿被弹劾，不是因为“他的不忠”，而是因为——he lied.对于笃信基督的国家，对于一个在自己纸币上印着GOD WITH YOU的国家，一个不在法庭上TOUCH THE BIBLE TO SWEAR则证词无效的国家，说谎违背上帝是多么重大的罪恶啊？

或许，美国精神不仅仅是自由民主，诚信或许也是精神上的立国之本啊！

4.很喜欢TRUST CIRCLE这个隐喻——JACK多次对GREG说要“put you into my trust circle”这里的CIRCLE当然是他信任的人的范围～而在影片的最后，trust circle变成了一个具体的东西——the diomand engagement ring!isn't it a typical kind of trust circle?哈哈～压力的大的时候看看这种轻松的影片，效果不错～^-^图文版评论请看:http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/3f61257b010009tw图文版评论请看:http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/3f61257b010009tw图文版评论请看:http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/3f61257b010009tw

婆媳之间的过招固然是不可理喻，翁婿之间的较量有时也是惊心动魄。

十多年前的片子啦，现在翻起来看还依然不错。

谎言和真实结对搭上了诺亚方舟，组成了丰富多彩的世界。

Greg和Pam，一对朴实的情侣，平凡的工作的两人真诚相爱。

Greg一直计划用浪漫氛围向Pam求婚，曾尝试，未成功。

因参加Pam妹妹的婚礼，Greg拜见了未来的岳父大人，于是噩梦开始了。

女儿是父亲的小情人，父亲当然是未来女婿的情敌，尤其他曾服务于CIA。

全剧围绕善意的谎言开始的。

岳父养了一只猫，视若幼子。

天生不喜欢猫的Greg，谄媚地顺嘴说句他喜欢猫，被心直口快的Pam揭穿，据死抵赖的Greg陷入圆谎的陷阱。

从喜欢猫，到编故事给猫喂奶，谎说猫按马桶冲水，买假猫代替走失的猫，后来的谎言越说越大，甚至到引起失火后害怕而推卸责任。

全剧只因自己一句奉承地信口开河，被咄咄逼人的岳父大人步步紧逼，把自己搞得狼狈不堪，甚至开始怀疑人生。

其实，没那么严重，白色的谎言无伤大雅，也是高情商的表现，但如果用谎言去掩盖谎言，必定荒诞不经，作茧自缚。

岳父的生活充满失败，对人充满不信任，家里到处安装的摄像头，窃听器，说明他有多么的不自信。

作为一名CIA情报人员也许是职业病导致，带着怀疑的眼光，先入为主的主观臆测，并横加断言的下结论，将这种工作状态代入生活简直是灾难。

他赶走了女儿Pam的未婚夫，为了再次赶走Greg，居然伪装到和女儿的前任打得火热。

这样的保护女儿，让被保护的女儿不知所措，当他的臆测被女儿拆穿时，只能接受自己愚蠢的自作聪明。

为了增加喜剧效果，女儿在这个影片中也不停地推波助澜，仿佛站在他的对面，形成群殴的局面，让最后的门前分手搞得有点凄惨。

夫妻之间，特别是与双方父母在一起的时候，为搞好融洽关系，偶尔说些白色的谎言，两人切记相互补台，提升和谐关系，谎言就像生活中的润滑剂，因为真相是赤裸裸的！

我是Robert de Nero的影迷，也很喜歡Ben Stiller，雖然他的經典搞笑方式有點定型了。

這部電影搞笑是沒有到瘋癲的程度，但是無論是Jack還是可憐的Gaylord Focker都凝聚了太多的笑點，讓人無法不大笑。

最精彩的部分是相見後的晚飯。

從Gｒｅｇ（Gaylord）的餐前禱告，到Jack的祭母詩都是金句，尤其是Greg評論說，Jack的詩是　"ｓｏ　ｔｏｕｃｈｉｎｇ　ａｎｄ　ｓｏ　ｍｕｃｈ　ｉｎｆｏｒｍａｔｉｏｎ．" 之後祖母的骨灰瓶摔碎，Jinx跳上去刨骨灰，後面就要應Pam媽媽說的，可憐的小貓還是喜歡刨貓砂小解。

無論大臉貓Pam怎麼吹鬍子瞪眼，Jinx都堅持尿到骨灰上面，拋回一個堅忍且帶幾分挑釁的表情，也許這個表情都是Jack一手訓練出來的。

有趣的是，Jack認定Jinx不能按馬桶的水閥，理由是它沒有拇指。

後面大姐的未來公公又強調了一次這個理論。

沒有拇指，所以不可能按沖水閥。

遺憾的是，後面慘劇發生越來越劇烈幽默性反倒變小了，到收尾的時候就有點大勢已去的意思。

不過好戲都要收場的，淡隱的結束方式也是合理的。

是给没有拜见岳父母的经历的可怜人们的最好教科书除了名字噱头有点过分 电影带来的共鸣 联系着每个观者都有的类似经历

又一部青山经常提起的片子(你看看这厮平常推荐的都是什么片子)其实还是挺不错的毕竟人BenStiller就是靠拍这种片子活着的而且竟然还能拉到RobertDeNiro话说GaylordMarthaFocker(你看这ZB名字取的)打算和女友结婚不过听说能不能结婚的关键在于能不能讨好岳父正逢大姨子结婚于是来到女方家从一上飞机开始噩梦就开始了先是行李太大要托运然后行李就被弄丢了然后就是一系列的倒霉事比如崩了岳父老妈的骨灰盒之后打水球过于投入让新娘破了相然后抽烟烧掉了女友前男友做的婚礼祭坛用来充数的猫毁了家里的东西总之极尽所能的搞笑没什么思想与意义就是看着爽